Mostly people question is how comes that you have put so much value towards family even it is more important than money is more important than impact is more important than your work and indeed is true it is more important work.
you know family is where when everything else is gotten out of the way that is why you are anchored and this is a support mechanism that we should all be proud about this is a support mechanism that we should always be able to nurture unfortunately many many of us we do not put it at that level where it is number four by the way you might be asking what one two and three you know one is about your spirituality what is your connection with your maker? what is that you believe and how does it drive your life you know the second point is about your physical health because indeed if you lose it you have lost everything and number three is about your inner health that's the kind of energy do you radiate are you always positive or are you one of people who are always grooming.
You know and then number four becomes your family and you'll be able to see that these are the three components that we talked about which is spirituality it's about physical health and it's about inner health all contributes to make better the rest of the things that we talk about in the nine domain areas to become even better so my urge to you is that let's be able to build this support mechanism called family and family here means it could be about your wife how is your marriage you know how is that relationship and remember this is a lifetime relationship so it must be built on respect it must be built on love it must also be built on caring for one another because when you do that and also thinking about the synergies that it brings because in most cases we shoot ourselves i mean a husband and wife if they are not making decisions together as an example when whereas it could be financial decisions it could be about their children's education it could be any decision even in about career impact and all these other things and networks.
If then it is not being done jointly then in most cases you don't benefit from the synergies remember the new formula nowadays is one plus one equals eleven you know we have always thought that equals to two you know it is not equal to two is equals to eleven and that's why you need your wife or husband impotart to be able to be making call joinancet decisions that then would be able to shape your life of course the next thing that comes in family and it follows after marriage is of course the children and remember that we are created to procreate you know to have children sowe must be able to ensure that we are actually growing and nurturing parents we are nurturing.
Human beings who are responsible human beings who actually can be able to make the world a different place so in this case the wife and husband must always invest in their children and that investment could be about the education it could be about the behavior it could also about the things that they do you know and remember our kids really copy from us so if you have a thriving relationship with your wife clearly it is also going to be translated to your children of course the other thing that we should talk about is also the other people within your family that is the extended family is it could be your cousins it could be your brothers your siblings all those people also matters in life and indeed the thing is how do you show up to these people remember family is number four and are very critical and if indeed you are doing well in family i can promise you the other things will be able to shape up those that is my take in regards to family and I really hope that you can be able to nurture that investment because it's an investment we put a lot of energy into it and it really deserves that energy because as I said this is one of your best support mechanism when everything else is not working you can go back to the family and they can be there for you they can be able to support you in your decisions and therefore you must be able to put them in forefront and fortunately as I said we shoot ourselves so much that we put them in the back banner and yet they are supposed to be number four.
I hope that you can consider that and see how your family can be of importance to you because indeed family is what we lead you to success and is a way of counting success how successful are you well how are your kids what is your relationship with your wife what is the relationship with your extended family and if you can be able to think and say it is very satisfactory indeed you are successful person.